It's not black and white (definitely not white!) when it comes to the unwritten rules and regulations of wedding attire. Dressing yourself for a wedding can be a stressful and pricey process.
White
While it's generally agreed that white is best avoided - not so much out of fear of upstaging the bride but rather her potential murderous reaction - there are a growing number of guests giving it a go. I still wouldn't recommend it but if you're particularly fond of that shade maybe opt for it as a base with a coloured floral pattern to be on the safe side.
Black:
Not quite the traditional faux pas of wearing white but many people hesitate before wearing black to a wedding. Generally pastel shades are preferred for summer with darker hues considered more suited to winter weddings. If you do like to dress in darker colours then go for it and if you're really worried about it just brighten it up with a handbag and shoes.
Jumpsuit:
For anyone with an aversion to wearing dresses weddings can be a pain. Often the only woman in trousers is the bride or grooms grandmother or elderly aunt. However, a jumpsuit paired with a set of heels or stylish sandals removes the stress of a dress while ensuring you still look your best.
Borrow:
Those lucky enough to have sisters are probably already well weathered in this trade but borrowing really does help, especially when it comes to multiple weddings in a short space of time. Swap outfits and/or accessories with friends to be sure no one is stuck when it comes to style.
Charity shops:
Charity shops often have a fantastic range of formal wear. Given the nature of the attire it tends to be worn less frequently meaning most offerings were worn only once or twice before the previous owner outgrew it. Charity shops are a great way to get a new outfit without the usual price tag.
Bridesmaid's dresses:
Been a bridesmaid before? Now is the time to capitalise on that and simply wear that dress or else just get it taken up/ sleeves added/ removed etc. to make it into a new outfit.
The best part is that alterations shouldn't be too expensive and almost everyone seems to have a relative who is a whizz on the sewing machine!
At the end of the day though, weddings place massive financial strain on many guests. If you already have something in the wardrobe and you're on a budget, forget the social regulations and wear what best helps the budget.
