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Dave Grohl says he had to 'turn everything off' after admitting to affair

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Foo Fighters singer Dave Grohl has said he had to "turn everything off" after he admitted to fathering a child outside of his marriage.

The former Nirvana drummer, 57, announced he had become a father to the baby girl on social media in September 2024, saying he was doing "everything I can" to regain his wife Jordyn Blum and their family's "trust and earn their forgiveness".

Los Angeles, CA - February 02: Musician David Grohl and wife Jordyn Blum are seen at the state of the city at Expo Center on Monday, Feb. 2, 2026 in Los Angeles, CA. (Ronaldo Bolaños / Los Angeles Times via Getty Images)
David Grohl and wife Jordyn Blum at the state of the city at Expo Center last February in Los Angeles. (Ronaldo Bolaños / Los Angeles Times via Getty Images)

Speaking in an interview with The Guardian, Grohl said: "I had to turn everything off, one of those things being my concern for what other people think.

"Being able to shut off that part of yourself can be sometimes a very healthy exercise in considering life within your immediate radius. Not giving all of that so much currency within yourself that it can completely destroy yourself."

The musician, who also featured on albums by Queens Of The Stone Age and Them Crooked Vultures, went on to say that songwriting was his way of dealing with the attention the incident brought.

He added: "I have to be perfectly honest, writing songs and writing lyrics about these things is sometimes enough.

Foo Fighters on Other Voices Photo: Johnny Savage Gilligan
Foo Fighters perform at Other Voices

"As far as having a deeper, longer conversation about them, I still do reserve a lot of this for my own personal life, as impersonal and public as it may seem.

"But I think that for many reasons, I wound up in a place that I needed to stop and sit with myself and re-evaluate myself. It’s an ongoing process."

Foo Fighters are due to release their 12th studio album, Your Favourite Toy, in April.

Grohl has been married to director Blum since 2003 and together they share daughters Violet, 18, Harper, 15, and Ophelia, 10.

He was previously married to photographer Jennifer Youngblood from 1994 until 1997 and reportedly has acknowledged that infidelity helped lead to their divorce.

Foo Fighters' Other Voices performance from St James's Church in Daingean Uí Chúis will air on RTÉ2 on Easter Monday, 6 April, at 9:30pm and will be available worldwide on RTÉ Player.

The hour-long episode, which was recorded on Sunday, 22 February, features tracks from Your Favorite Toy, alongside fan-favourites such as My Hero, Everlong, and Times Like These, as well as the deep cut A320, which had its first live outing since 2000 on the night.

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Foo Fighters are best known for songs such as All My Life, The Pretender and Monkey Wrench.

The drummer joined grunge band Nirvana in 1990, where he remained until their split in 1994 following the death of lead singer Kurt Cobain, aged 27. With Nirvana, Grohl featured on the albums Nevermind and In Utero.

Source: Press Association

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