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Blake Lively and Taylor Swift's text messages revealed in Baldoni lawsuit

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Taylor Swift and Blake Lively's texts have been shared as part on an ongoing lawsuit

A trove of previously private text messages and emails sent by Blake Lively, including exchanges with her longtime friend Taylor Swift, have been made public as part of the actress’s ongoing legal battle with actor-director Justin Baldoni.

Lively sued Baldoni and his hired crisis communications expert alleging harassment and a co-ordinated campaign to attack her reputation after she complained about his treatment of her while filming the 2024 romantic drama It Ends With Us.

The documents were unsealed ahead of Thursday’s arguments before a federal judge in New York City about whether to end their acrimonious yearlong litigation, which has threatened to suck in other actors, musicians and celebrities and raised questions about the levers of power, influence and gender dynamics in Hollywood.

Baldoni and his Wayfarer Studios production company countersued Lively and her husband, Deadpool actor and Wrexham AFC co-owner Ryan Reynolds, accusing them of defamation and extortion. Judge Lewis J Liman dismissed that suit last June. Judge Liman did not indicate on Thursday when he would rule on Lively’s case.

Justin Baldoni and Blake Lively on the set of It Ends With Us

At this point, the trial remains scheduled for 18 May, and could be star-studded. A document from Lively’s legal team says people likely to have information about the case, besides Swift, include model Gigi Hadid, actors Emily Blunt, Alexis Bledel, America Ferrera and Hugh Jackman, influencer Candace Owens, media personality Perez Hilton and designer Ashley Avignone.

Many of the text messages and emails unsealed included in filings by Baldoni’s lawyers, who argued that they show Lively was strategically manipulating Baldoni’s public image by leveraging connections with her powerful and famous friends.

Swift’s messages show that before and after their feud became public, she was advising Lively how to use Hollywood’s power dynamics to her advantage.

In April 2024, Lively sent Swift a message containing a link to the It Ends With Us trailer — which would be released publicly weeks later, featuring Swift’s song My Tears Ricochet.

"Wow I love how they use the song," Swift replied. "Welcome to Hollywood Justin."

The women then speculated about how the public would interpret the song’s inclusion in the film.

"If Justin was strategic/He would be like no Taylor Swift in the trailer/Because that gives you more power over the film, that’s your ally not his," Swift wrote.

Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds at the premiere of It Ends With Us

Lively responded: "You are so right. And so wickedly smart to call it. He should’ve run from your music. I never thought about that. But holy s**t. How stupid. This was his only shot at having the appearance of an upper hand."

After the hearing, Lively’s lawyer Sigrid McCawley told reporters that the text exchange is not relevant, and that Lively has done "everything she can to protect her friends from not being brought into that".

"What’s relevant is her claims that she was sexually harassed in the workplace and the witnesses that were there to see that," Ms McCawley said.

Lawyers for Baldoni, Lively and Swift did not respond on Thursday to emailed requests for comment.

In another text exchange, on December 4 2024, Lively checked in with Swift, writing that she felt "like a bad friend lately because I was such a sad sack" who only talked about her own problems "for months".

"You were generous to not only be the key person there for me during all of it, but also to let me off the hook for being so in it," Lively wrote. "But still have a feeling something may not be right."

Swift replied that she did perceive a shift in Lively’s language.

Blake Lively and Taylor Swift
Blake Lively and Taylor Swift

"I’ve been through things like this before and I know how all consuming it is," Swift wrote. "It’s more like… and I feel really bad saying anything about this because your texts have been so nice in their intent but your last few… it’s felt like I was reading a mass corporate email sent to 200 employees. You said the word 'we’ like 18 times."

"I just kinda miss my dark, normal-speaking friend who talks to me as herself, not like. A plural unit," Swift wrote.

The following day, Swift sent Lively a link to a People magazine story with the headline "Justin Baldoni Reveals He Was Sexually Traumatised by an Ex-Girlfriend When He Was ‘Hoping to Save Myself for Marriage’". Swift wrote: "I think this b**** knows something is coming because he’s gotten out his tiny violin."

Weeks later, Swift told Lively, "You won" and "You did it", while sharing an article saying Baldoni had been dropped by his talent agency.

"Never has a cancellation been reversed so fast," Swift wrote, after telling Lively that she "helped so many people who won’t have to go through this ever again."

"I love you so much," Lively responded. "I would not be ok through any of this if it weren’t for you."

In court on Thursday, Baldoni’s lawyer Jonathan Bach accused Lively of filling her lawsuit with "trivial and petty grievances" that fall short of legal standards for a hostile workplace claim.

"A whole bunch of little things can add up to a big thing," the judge responded.

Lively’s lawyer, Esra Hudson, countered with her allegations of repeated unwanted physical touching or humiliating incidents on the set, including an unscripted moment when she said Baldoni leaned in and kissed Lively, putting his face on her face.

"She’s clearly having her boundaries crossed in that moment. It was a surprise. No one discussed it before," Mr Hudson said.

When the judge said he was "still having trouble" determining how the question of consent fits on the set of a movie, Mr Hudson urged him to look at the "totality of circumstances.

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