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Rapper T.I. says 'virginity checks' comment about daughter was 'misconstrued'

T.I.
T.I.

The American rapper T.I. has claimed that he "exaggerated" when he said he accompanies his 18-year-old daughter to undergo an annual "virginity test" at the gynaecologist, saying his intentions have been "terribly misconstrued".

The 39-year-old Atlanta-born musician and actor, real name Clifford Harris, provoked outrage earlier this month when he told the Ladies Like Us podcast how he escorts his daughter Deyjah Harris to the doctor's office after each birthday to "check her hymen".

He has now attempted to "set the record straight" on his controversial comments.

Appearing on actress Jada Pinkett Smith's chat show Red Table Talk on Facebook Watch, he said: "Firstly I came on here to clear up any misconceptions that have been surrounding how we interact and parent and what is appropriate and inappropriate.

"I think all of this surrounds a conversation I was having in a very joking manner when asked how do I deal with parenting in this day and age.

"And so I just began to, from a place of truth, I began to embellish and exaggerate. I think a lot of people took it extremely literal, because if you put any of my reputation, who I am as a father, who I've been, I honestly thought people knew me better than that."

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When asked if he understood the sensitivity around his comments, he said: "No, I did not. I understand it now, yes I do, absolutely. However, I think my intentions have been terribly misconstrued and misconceived.

"Let me go set this record straight. I never said I was in any exam room: that is an assumption, that is a falsity. I never said it was being done present day as an 18-year-old."

"She was 15 or 16-years-old at the time," T.I.'s wife Tiny Harris, who is not Deyjah's mother, interjected.

"And I never said that her mother wasn't present. Her mom was present every time," the rapper continued.

"This false narrative has just been sensationalised."

He continued of his daughter: "There was never any objection. She did have a problem with me talking about it, however, and I understand that and I am incredibly apologetic to her for that, not to any of these other strangers or any of these weirdos who toss lies around for fun.

"She understands my intentions; she knows who I am and she knows who I've always been and I think that allows a certain level of understanding.

"Outside, the noise is distracting, it's confusing, it's hurtful and embarrassing."

The rapper added that he has been trying to protect his daughter, saying: "In the age or the time when our women, black women, are the most unprotected, unattended, disregarded women on the planet, I am being criticised because I am willing to go above and beyond to protect mine.

"I don't understand anything; that is the most important thing to me in my life. I am going to deal with that with very extreme care, and I don't understand how that is looked at as being so wrong.

"For there to be malice there must be ill-intent. If I'm going to the doctor with you just for the sake of controlling you then OK, but if I'm going for the purpose of being a protective parent, and there is no such thing as over-protective, there is protected and unprotected.

"I am here to protect all of the children from themselves, until they make it to a point where they have awareness, a sense of self, and discernment, to be able to make certain decisions on their own that will impact their lives indefinitely.

"I'm not there necessarily to protect virginity, I just know that is a big move, once you make that move there are things that happen that follow, you have to be equipped and I don't know if you're equipped.

"Awareness is my first line of defence."

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