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Stephen Fry apologises unreservedly over abuse remarks

Stephen Fry has apologised unreservedly for his remarks
Stephen Fry has apologised unreservedly for his remarks

Stephen Fry has apologised for remarks he made suggesting that survivors of sexual abuse who pity themselves should "grow up".

The 58 year old renowned actor and broadcaster, who is also president of the mental health charity Mind, was condemned for the comments that were made on US talk show The Rubin Report.

During the interview, which was later posted on YouTube, Fry said: "There are many great plays which contain rapes, and the word rape now is even considered a rape.

"They're terrible things and they have to be thought about, clearly, but if you say you can't watch this play, you can't watch Titus Andronicus, or you can't read it in a Shakespeare class, or you can't read Macbeth because it's got children being killed in it, it might trigger something when you were young that upset you once, because uncle touched you in a nasty place, well, I'm sorry.

"It's a great shame and we're all very sorry that your uncle touched you in that nasty place - you get some of my sympathy - but your self-pity gets none of my sympathy because self-pity is the ugliest emotion in humanity."

Fry then added: "Grow up."

Today in the face of a huge public backlash, a statement on behalf of Fry was published on the Mind website, he said:

It distresses me greatly to think that I have upset anyone in the course of the TV interview I had with David Rubin the other week. I of course apologise unreservedly for hurting feelings the way I did. That was never my purpose.

He added: "There are few experiences more terrible, traumatic and horrifying than rape and abuse and if I gave the impression that I belittled those crimes and the effects they have on their victims then I am so, so sorry.

"It seems I must have utterly failed to get across what I was actually trying to say and instead offended and upset people who didn't deserve to be offended or upset."

Mind also issued a statement which sought to distance itself somewhat from the comments.

"We understand why some people may have been upset by Stephen Fry’s remarks in a recent American TV interview," it said.

"Stephen was speaking in a personal context, giving his own views as part of a longer discussion on the subject of freedom of speech."

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