On February 19th 2011 a young Irish woman called Grace Farrell froze to death in an alcove of St. Brigid's Church on the lower East side of Manhattan on what was the coldest night of that New York winter.
Like so many others Grace had emigrated from Ireland in the mid-1990s with dreams of making a new life for herself in America, but she also had one other major goal and that was to meet her mother who had emigrated some years before and whom Grace had never met.
When she was born Grace’s mother was unable to care for her so Grace was placed in St. Vincent's Children’s Home in Drogheda.
Amongst the dozens of other kids there at the time was a young man named Emmanuel Touhey who had arrived at the home in 1968 as an 18-month old child because like Grace's, Emmanuel’s mother was also unable to look after him. St. Vincent’s was where he would spend the best part of the next 20 years.
Emmanuel remembers Grace as a shy but fun-loving kid; “she had a very loud and deep laugh and she would be very mischievous and she could have this terrible serious frown and then this great guffaw would come out of her. I think she enjoyed her own company but she also craved the company of others, you know just like we all did, she wanted to feel loved and she wanted to feel secure”.
A few years before Grace decided to go to America, Emmanuel had made the same decision. “I moved down to Washington and I used that as my base to network and to get to know people on Capitol hill.” Emmanuel thrived in his new home, he got a job working with C-Span; the DC-based political news network and he got married and started a family.
Meanwhile in New York Grace had found her mother in the Bronx but things didn’t go smoothly and the relationship was by all accounts fraught. Grace drank heavily and ended up on the streets.
One day on the Lower East Side she was rescued from a mugging by a man named Albert Muniz. Albert took Grace in and within a short space of time they started a relationship.
In 1998 Grace gave birth to a baby boy and for a while Grace really seemed to be settling down – she even gave up drink. But, when her son was two, she reverted to her old ways – disappearing for days on end.
Tompkins Square Park on the Lower East Side is popular with a lot of homeless people in New York City, mobile soup kitchens regularly dispense hot food and charity workers distribute warm clothing from the side walk several times a week. On the night of February 19th 2011 Grace found herself here on what was the coldest day of that bitter New York winter, she found a spot in an alcove beside St. Brigid’s church and lay down on a couple of flimsy pieces of cardboard. Some time during the night, she died.
In Washington DC Emmanuel read the news in the New York papers. Although he hadn’t seen Grace since his time in St. Vincent’s Children’s Home, he wanted her to be remembered as more than just another grim statistic. He wrote an article in the New York Times about Grace. “I think despite how hard she tried and how much she hoped to live a life that she wanted to live for her son and for her family, the odds were against her I think from the beginning”.
Produced by Michael Kealy with Ronan Kelly
First Broadcast Saturday 18th July 2015 at 2pm
You can read Emmanuel's article here.
Main photo courtesy: EV Grieve Blog
An Irish radio documentary from RTÉ Radio 1, Ireland - Documentary on One - the home of Irish radio documentaries.