Episode Four
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Episode three of This is Me - The Hearing Aide will take us on a journey of discovery, as we learn to understand deafness in a world where everything is geared towards hearing. It has been said that deaf people need to be fixed - they have their own language they don’t need to be fixed. Everyday Mary Stringer brings the hearing and deaf worlds together. Despite the obstacles thrown in their way, the Stringers simply live their lives.
Mary and Lizzy Stringer are both hearing. Been born to deaf parents allows them to have one foot in the deaf world and one in the hearing. Mary grew up fiercely protective of her deaf parents. Sign language was her first language. Been the eldest she is the mother hen of the family. “I would interpret at parent/teacher meetings, and would sometimes lie if I didn’t like what the teacher was saying”. She felt worried about things beyond her years. The death of her father Joe, when she was 16 was tough. Having to interpret for her mother and deal with her own emotions was very difficult and upsetting. She could hardly understand what was happening herself, let alone interpret for her mother.
When Mary moved out, but only around the corner; Lizzy, 21 remained at home with Jennifer. As Lizzy is the youngest she relied on Mary to look after her and after their mother’s hearing needs. “People think deaf houses are quite. Our house is mad. I can come in from college and the hoover is on, the TV is blaring, the dishwasher and washing machine are going all at once” says Lizzy.
Mary was born into her career. Today, she is a professional interpreter, and her job takes her all over the country. She is the ultimate CODA (Child of Deaf Adult). She confesses that the power of a CODA is very strong, “I know everything about my mother; sometimes more than I want to”.
Jennifer’s surprised 50th birthday party is a milestone for the Stingers. They just have to be sure that people remember not to just ‘shout’ surprise but to sign it as well.
Links:
The Irish Deaf Society
(National Association of the Deaf)
30 Blessington St.,
Dublin 7
Tel: 01 8601878
Fax: 01 8601960
Minicom: 01 8601910
info@irishdeafsociety.ie
www.deaf.ie
Kerry Deaf Resource Centre
4 Gas Terrace,
Tralee,
Co Kerry
Tel: 066 7120399
www.kerrydeaf.com
